Depression and Intimacy in Couples
Depression is hard on relationships. 17 million Americans a year suffer from depression. It is usually ranked number one for mental health issues.
A depressed partner withdraws, gets irritable, may "use", do other things or leave. Recognizing depression and not another issue can be complex. And then when sexual intimacy is affected things can also be difficult for a relationship. Unfortunately, anti-depressants aren't for everyone or may negatively affect sexual function.
But there are ways to help depression and be helpful to the depressed person. You can work through the conflict, not do too much for the depressed person or understand their grief. Since depression is contagious it is important that either one or both people in the couple come into counseling for help if Either of them are suicidal.
To meet this need I will be launching a monthly meeting "Depression and Intimacy". Watch for more information. If you have a time, topic or want to make other comments regarding the meeting please let me know by commenting on this blog, sending an email or calling me.
To good moods,
Barbara Massey LMFTParkPlace Counseling Center
www.barbaramassey.com
541-245-9610 ext. 3
Barbara Massey
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Hi Barbara,
I am interested to hear more about your training at the Jean Baker Miller Institute. I specialize in couples counseling in Rockville, Marland (www.bethlevinecounseling.com). You might want to look into Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy (EFT). There are similarities between EFT and John Gottman's work. I have had great success using EFT.
I hope this is helpful.
Beth